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It's hard not to

But, still. You don't need to give them attention at all times constantly.

8:45 PM

That would be insane.

So how do I know when it's not okay and when it isn't?

What do you mean?

The purpose of naturally formed stress is usually to identify a part of your existence that requires change to achieve a subjectively better life. Unfortunately, sometimes we include artificial elements to our lives to stress over that it seems the act of stressing completely negates any benefit received from changing what is necessary to stop the stress.

To give her attention

It is always okay to give them attention.

It is likely that your stress is because you want to change and make things better, but I think in the end it will be more costly to focus on the stress and changing than it would be to relax and find a path forward that doesn't require force.

Yes.

You don't need to focus on your tulpa at every waking moment, but every bit helps. Don't stress yourself if you forget about her for a few hours, it's not like you're going to see some massive negative impact because of it.

If you have other things to attend to in life, then do so.

You guys sure?

Yes, we're not misleading you.

Yup this is pretty much how we operate

Jas, Vos, and I have years of experience here.

yeah, just do what you can

I believe Srn347 does as well.

This does take a certain weight off my shoulders....

^all of that is true

I just want her to know I care

In addition...

Keep in mind that you share a brain, she knows your intentions.

Parents aren't going to be there for every waking moment to attend to their child either.

Nathan, you've expressed how much you care far more than most hosts I've seen, so it'd be hard to believe that the message isn't getting through.

Indeed.

But again, try not to get too stressed. The people on this server are always happy to help if you're unsure about things.

believe me, she knows.

also most tulpas are quite empathetic toward their host, there's a good chance she understands your feelings on the matter

Idk what to say

8:53 PM

Thanks you guys

8:53 PM

Means a lot

We are here to help.

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Is it okay if I ask another question?

Yes.

This channel is for beginners questions. There's no need to hesitate or ask to ask. (edited)

Yes.

I feel dumb now

10:04 PM

Anyways

10:05 PM

I always feel like since she's watching the world through my eyes I always have I be careful with every little thing

What things do you feel you need to be careful of?

explodes

10:06 PM

Stuff

10:06 PM

Just like, everything in general

10:06 PM

If something pops up I freak out and I'm like "NOTHING HAPPENED"

she has access to your memories you know

seriously, you're going to have to be more specific

10:08 PM

when's the last time this happened?

it's not like you can prevent her from knowing about porn lol

I don't think you should be nervous about your tulpa seeing what you see. If you're embarassed, thenyou should probably talk to her about it and see if it's amusing to her or not. If it isn't, there shouldn't be a problem with it, hopefully.

I am not sure what you mean exactly. I would only remind you that she shares your brain, and that means that the brain she is using is the same age as your's, so if you are old enough to look at something mature, like a horror film or pornography, she is as well. I would not worry about it, things like this exist, and it is fine for someone to know that they do exist. I would only encourage her to know and think about these things in a mature way.

but, yeah, with porn and stuff, it's highly unlikely she'll, like, think badly of you for it. Maybe laugh at you, worst-case scenario. You share a brain, after all.

Dang

10:11 PM

maybe laugh at me

10:11 PM

That dang came in way late

I wouldn't completely lack care and tact, but I similarly wouldn't be particularly worried.

Yeah

10:12 PM

I myself thought I was being too much

10:12 PM

If I know of it, can laugh at it sometimes and view it in different ways, why cant she right?

10:12 PM

She'll see what I see

10:13 PM

She'll see and understand how I see it

Yes.

I GET IT NOW

Good.

IM SO HAPPY AAAAAAAHHHHH

I was thinking earlier today, what does an imposed tulpa see? For instance, if a host is standing before a corner, and the tulpa looks around it what do they see? And does this change if the host has been around the corner before? Wild they just see what the host remembers being there or nothing at all? This just seems really confusing to me. (edited)

well, they don't have the power to actually see information the body has no way of having received, though rather than see nothing the mind usually generates what it expects to see (or remembers seeing in that area)

Either or.

They will likely use the eyes from the physical body to see. They can try to imagine what they would see, from their perspective, but they will not be able to scout and see things that the host cannot.

It depends on what they expect. If they expect to see "something", the brain will model it based on what they predict it would look like (including using prior memories), but if they don't expect to see anything, they... won't.

We definitely can't see what the body cannot see. Trust me, we've had many people try, using a deck of cards.

@Beckett so it could be kind of like a third person video game where the host's eyes are like the players camera (edited)

You can think of it in that way, sure.

basically. They can imagine seeing from a different perspective, but that's all it is.

So, hypothetically, if we get far enough could we switch and have her impose me? (edited)

I was going to say, what in the world.

Yes.

You could do that, yes.

I feel like I would want to do it as least once, so at the very least I can get a feel for how she views things

It could be interesting. When you do, please share what you experienced.

Will do. It'll be a while tho, we're still in the early stages of development

Of course. I do suggest taking your time on this journey. It is very rewarding, and you only really get to experience it once, as making a second tulpa seems to take much less time than the first, from what I have seen.

Of course, I'm letting her take as much time as she needs

Wonderful.

hey can some of you guys give me some words of encouragement to keep going with making my tulpa i keep skipping days of narrating to it and i feel hopeless

@ionlyplaywarframeyoucanunfriend. String.

12:04 AM

Tie it around a finger.

i have tape

I think you should set aside time, every day, as a schedule, to force her.

I'm sure there's some way you can have fun with it

That works.

12:04 AM

A schedule and setting reminders should work.

An alarm on your phone to remind you?

You could play a game you particularly like, or read a book to her.

12:05 AM

Or it.

Go to the store and go shopping with your tulpa. Narrate the brands you like and the stuff you usually get, and ask it questions about what you should or shouldn't buy regardless if it doesn't respond or not.

just a question about playing a game, do i like narrate to her how i would like someone like a youtuber who plays games commentates?

That could work, yes.

Maybe even buy something for her, like a little bow.

that's definitely a valid way to do it